Often love or romance is mistaken as sex these days!The outlook of society to romance has greatly changed these days..Many people go on dating,hang around,have parties&finally end up in bed..I am not saying all lovers belong to this category,but majority comes under this!And they break up after they do all they want&start dating another person..This's really sad 2 hear..And basically unacceptable for our society or culture(but changing rapidly)!True love is something which is vanishing from our society..Almost 80% of love affairs are not true or sincere..Once we had the concept of true love..Now its just dating,hanging around,parties..It cant be called as love!Love is something which pours from our heart..A direct heart to heart conversation..The moment when our eyes speak more than mouth..Where we give our life for our loved one,keeps the sincerity&purity in the relation and finally ends in marriage..The lifelong commitment!
Of course sex is not a crime..Its natural in a relation..No relation will be there which didn't have at least a kiss..But its fine if that relation ends in a marriage!But as i said these days majority of the relations break up after sex..Premarital sex is becoming common in our country now..Hmm,i am not writing much about the sexual factor of this,will jump to the romance part!We have many concepts about romance..The most beautiful one is the "Romance in Rain"..A couple having a tight hug/kissing in rain..Walking in rain with their hands together..Getting a shelter under umbrella for the rain to get over&talk for a long time..Many concepts are there..For me,walking in the rain is the best one:)..Even walking along the beach,lying there together&watching the sky&stars..The list is endless!
Even romantic proposals are missing these days.. Of course the candlelit dinner is one of the best ways to do it..Tom Cruise proposed to Katie Holmes after just two months of dating during a private candlelit dinner at the famous Le Jules Verne restaurant near the top of the Eiffel Tower.. Isn't that really awesome??We are living in electronic age now..Technically we are very much advanced..We have mobiles,e-mails,chats,social networking sites etc...Most proposals are done through sms these days..Or through phone,e-mail or chats..All these are spoiling the natural beauty of proposals..I do like to share my view on proposing my girl.."On a starry night,in a beach side resort..Just me and her..Surrounded by just candle lights&soothing music being played on violin..In my ever favourite black suite..On my knees,i do like to say to her that 'i want you in my life'..And then put a ring on finger..Kiss on her forehead..":)
I deeply wish that our society remains the way it is..I am really afraid that western culture is getting into us..My sincere appreciation to those people who still holds all the values&purity in a relation..And to everyone,don't get offended after reading this..This is just my personal view or opinion on this subject..U will be having your own views on this..I don't expect i can change the world in a matter of seconds by my blog..I alone cant change anyone..Happy if anyone finds this as good or useful..I just expect that!