Are we losing the essence&purity of Love,Romance&Proposals??

Often love or romance is mistaken as sex these days!The outlook of society to romance has greatly changed these days..Many people go on dating,hang around,have parties&finally end up in bed..I am not saying all lovers belong to this category,but majority comes under this!And they break up after they do all they want&start dating another person..This's really sad 2 hear..And basically unacceptable for our society or culture(but changing rapidly)!True love is something which is vanishing from our society..Almost 80% of love affairs are not true or sincere..Once we had the concept of true love..Now its just dating,hanging around,parties..It cant be called as love!Love is something which pours from our heart..A direct heart to heart conversation..The moment when our eyes speak more than mouth..Where we give our life for our loved one,keeps the sincerity&purity in the relation and finally ends in marriage..The lifelong commitment!

Of course sex is not a crime..Its natural in a relation..No relation will be there which didn't have at least a kiss..But its fine if that relation ends in a marriage!But as i said these days majority of the relations break up after sex..Premarital sex is becoming common in our country now..Hmm,i am not writing much about the sexual factor of this,will jump to the romance part!We have many concepts about romance..The most beautiful one is the "Romance in Rain"..A couple having a tight hug/kissing in rain..Walking in rain with their hands together..Getting a shelter under umbrella for the rain to get over&talk for a long time..Many concepts are there..For me,walking in the rain is the best one:)..Even walking along the beach,lying there together&watching the sky&stars..The list is endless!

Even romantic proposals are missing these days.. Of course the candlelit dinner is one of the best ways to do it..Tom Cruise proposed to Katie Holmes after just two months of dating during a private candlelit dinner at the famous Le Jules Verne restaurant near the top of the Eiffel Tower.. Isn't that really awesome??We are living in electronic age now..Technically we are very much advanced..We have mobiles,e-mails,chats,social networking sites etc...Most proposals are done through sms these days..Or through phone,e-mail or chats..All these are spoiling the natural beauty of proposals..I do like to share my view on proposing my girl.."On a starry night,in a beach side resort..Just me and her..Surrounded by just candle lights&soothing music being played on violin..In my ever favourite black suite..On my knees,i do like to say to her that 'i want you in my life'..And then put a ring on finger..Kiss on her forehead..":)

I deeply wish that our society remains the way it is..I am really afraid that western culture is getting into us..My sincere appreciation to those people who still holds all the values&purity in a relation..And to everyone,don't get offended after reading this..This is just my personal view or opinion on this subject..U will be having your own views on this..I don't expect i can change the world in a matter of seconds by my blog..I alone cant change anyone..Happy if anyone finds this as good or useful..I just expect that!

100 truths??

A Random Tag i borrowed from someone's blog as i browsed through..

1. Last beverage – A cup of Tea:)
2. Last phone call- Nipin(My best friend)
3. Last text message – Unni Chettan
4. Last song you listened to – Teri Meri Dosti Ka Aasman(Love Shreya's voice like anything:))
5. Last time you cried – When i had a harsh chat with my sister:(

6.Dated someone twice? – No
7. Been cheated on? – Maybe
8. Cried yourself to sleep? – Yes
9. Lost someone special? – No
10. Been depressed? – Yes
11. Seen ghosts – No..Want to see one:)

15.Made new friends – Yea always:)
16. Fallen out of love – No
17. Laughed until you cried – Yup..Many times!:)
18. Met someone who changed you – Yes!:)
19. Found out who your true friends were – Yes
20. Found out someone was talking about you – Yes
21. Kissed anyone on your friend's list - Yes;)
22. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life ? –More than 80%
23. How many kids do you want to have – Two..Godd,gimme controll;)
24. Do you have any pets – Yea..A dog!
25. Do you want to change your name – No need!
26. What did you do for your last birthday – Wrote a fucking university exam:(
27. What time did you wake up today – 6:30(had to download movies):)
28. What were you doing at midnight last night – Messaging and wishing everyone a very happy x'mas:)
29. Name something you CANNOT wait for – Finishing this hectic B.Tech!
30. Last time you saw your father – 3 months bak!
31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life – Want to acheive something i really desire:)
32. What are you listening to right now – Nothing!
33. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom - No!
34. What's getting on your nerves right now?- Ahh..Nothing!
36. Whats your real name - Gautham Sunil Kumar
37. Relationship Status – Its complicated!:)
38. Zodiac sign - Capricorn
39. Male or female – Male
40. Natural Hair color? - Black
41. Hair color now – Black
42. Pet Peeve – Fucking net speed!
43. Need Glasses- Ya..Just for fun!
44. Long or short – I am happy with this;)
45. Height - 6'1
46. Do you have a crush on someone – Yes...What a question??:)
47. What do you like about yourself? – I have a lot of very good friends:)
48. Piercings – No
49. Tattoos – No
50. Righty or lefty – Righty:)

51. First surgery – In 6th std!
52. First piercing – Will inform when i does one!
53. First tattoo - Coming soon:)
54. First best friend – Don't want to mention one..I have a lot of best friends:)
55. First sport you joined – Lemon nd Spoon(I think so):)
56. First pet – A Dog
57. First vacation – Kallara(My native place)
59. First crush- Soumya:)
60. First alcoholic drink – Beer(Wid my cousins and uncle):)

61. Eating – Dairy Milk:)
62. Wearing – A Shirt&Tracks:)
63. I'm about to - Continue reading 2 states:)
64. Speaking to – No one!
65. Waiting to – Celebrate my birthday!
66. Want kids? – Noooooo
67. Want to get married? – Ya..4 sure!
68. Careers in mind? – Journalist..Writer..Anything in media field:)

69. Lips or eyes – What a question??Defenitely eyes:)
70. Hugs or kisses – Hug when i kiss her;)
71. Shorter or taller- Not too short..Should hav a decent height..Height doesnt matter much:)
72. Older or Younger – Both:P
73. Romantic or spontaneous – Spontaneously romantic:)
74. Nice stomach or nice arms – Everything should be nice:P
75. Tattoos or piercings- Just ears pierced:)
76. Sensitive or loud- Sensitive!
77. Hook-up or relationship – Should get hooked up in a relationship!
78. Trouble maker or hesitant- Trouble maker:)

79. Kissed a stranger – No:)
80. Drank hard liquor - Yes:)
81. Lost glasses/contacts – Luckily not:)
82. Sex on first date – No..After that;)
83. Broken someones heart – Dont think so..:)
84. Had your own heart broken –I think once:(
85. Been arrested?- Nope:(..Waiting 4 that 4 a long time..Many times i narrowly missed it..Hope it will soon happen:)
86. Turned someone down - No
87. Cried when someone died - Yes
88. Got someone into trouble intentionally – Never

89. Yourself – Sometimes:)
90. Miracles – Yes
91. Love at first sight – No
92. Heaven – On earth..Wid friends:)
93. Santa Claus –Yes!
94. Kissing on the first date? - No
95. Angels – Yes

96. Is there one person you want to be with right now? – Yes..Very muchh:)
97. Had more than one boyfriend/ girlfriend at one time? – Yes in 10th:)
98. Do you believe it’s possible to remain faithful forever? – Yes..Sure:)
99. What's the one thing you cannot live without? – Friends nd family:)
100. Posting this as 100 truths? – Ya!

The True Legend

Hmm..i cant resist my temptation to write this,especially after seeing this legend's innings yesterday..Im talking about none other than our own Master Blaster..The God of Cricket..The Living Legend..India's personal pride..The one&only SACHIN TENDULKAR!

Oh my god..what an innings that was..175 of just 141 balls..Aussie bowlers being thrashed to every corner of the ground.I admit that this wasn't his best century..We cant forget his back to back centuries at Sharjah or any other centuries..But this will hold a special place in his career and every cricket fan's heart! In fact every innings from him is always very special..seeing him in ground is a pleasant view to our eyes!Considering his age,this century has to be specially mentioned..after fielding for 50 overs,he batted till 48th over of Indian innings.. that's something great..its the best example for dedication,passion for the game..! And this knock was a great reply to his so-called 'critics'or those who assumes to be a legend.

Its truly disappointing that India lost the match..Some poor decisions by the team management like sending Harbhajan before Jadeja..and truly irresponsible young players..played like a 20-20 game when just run a ball was needed..Really the youngsters need to study a lot from Sachin..his dedication,patience..after all he's a great human being..a gem of a person!Many will be blaming for the way he got out..those people doesn't have any right to blame or criticise him..he played his part very well,gave his 100%..scored over 50% of the Indian score..and when we got out India had still 3 wickets in hand with only 19 runs to win from 17 balls..Its just the stupid batting at the end,which awarded the game to Aussies..I should congratulate Raina&Sehwag for their wonderful support!Its really nice to see everyone appreciating this innings..Even Ponting couldn't stop applauding that innings..As i conclude this blog,im sure that more and more great innings are yet to come form this man..Age cant stop this man from producing wonders..Sachin,you are the best batsman i have ever seen..The only person who deserve the title 'Legend'!

"It was one of my best innings, I was striking the ball very well and we were chasing 351 so there was constant pressure,".We maintained the run rate and brought the game close, but in the end it was very disappointing." -Tendulkar

"I wish he scores another 2000 runs by 2011 World Cup. Sachin knows best how to accumulate runs. Once he gets going he becomes unstoppable." -Sourav Ganguly

"Sachin played beautifully. It was one of the best knocks I've ever seen."-Ricky Ponting


The Real Show

Hmm..I have been waiting long to write something on reality shows!I want to discuss about the music reality shows in malayalam only.Well..i completed hated these shows till 'Superstar' was launched in Amrita Tv.I should say that program set the standard for reality shows in malayalam.Still i consider it as the best show ever in a malayalam channel!We should thank amrita tv&its director Mr Satheesh for giving a music feast to ur eyes!The director was so successful in choosing an eminent panel of judges consisting of Deepak Dev,Alphons Joseph&Balabhaskar(was not in the judging panel during last weeks of the show).But his best selection was in choosing none other than Stephen Devassy..The one man orchestra!The 15 contestants selected were equally talented.They gave us some unforgettable performances.

Soon many shows were launched in other channels following the success of Superstar..but eventually all turned up to be worst(my personal opinion).The credit of superstar goes to the entire crew behind it..Everything was perfect in the show..I cant stop appreciating Stephen for the work he did..While all other shows(including hindi/tamil channels) used full orchestra/karaoke,this man fought as a one man orchestra..The techno man!His fingers produced magic..He gave soothing music to our ears..Moreover his humbleness&simplicity made him even great!!No wonder why he got a huge fan base after the how..Ofcourse,he was the superstar of the show!We cant never forget the anchor of the show..Shyama.She was the moral support for all the contestants.Another thing i liked most was the bond of friendship that the contestants made..A show that also gave friendship a new definition!

Coming to the contestants..No one will ever forget two names-Sangeeth and Job Kurian!The best finalists that malayalam music reality shows had ever seen..Their 'Krishna nee vegane baro' was simply scintillating.We cant forget the final five which consisted of Ajay,Nidheesh&Mridula.They sang 'Secret of success' with almost 100% orginality..AR would have been proud if he heard that.The other contestants were also equally talented..but as the show proceeds the better among the best survives!After the show ended many shows started coming up in many channels..For me,no show reached the standard level set by Superstar.Later amrita tv came with superstar global,which was launched for contestants all over the world..But even that didnt reach my expectations..and the judges panel were ineffective.But their were some really talented contestants in that show too..and it was evident form the beginning that Roopa will be crowned as the superstar global.Later on the music reality shows became something like a drama show!But there are few talented singers in all shows.And for all the music directors..U are all made judges of many shows..But just do 1 favour..give chance for these talented people,as much as you can..The music industry needs fresh voices&only you people can do that.Please do make these people sing in your films.
Finally amrita tv again came up with Superstar2,which really catches up with the standard of its 1st edition..Its nice to see Deepak Dev&Stephen back..Also nice to see MJ Jayachandran being more lenient and friendly to contestants.This show also raises hopes about some of the contestants like Sujith Lal,Sidhesh,Raish..As im concluding this,i just want to tel 1 thing..Superstar was the show which changed the face of music reality shows in malayalam&it is because of this show that people strated watching other shows..or this show is the reason of other shows existence/survival.And when it come to finalists..Only Sangeeth&Job comes to our mind..Sincerely i wanted Job to win,because he was the versatile singer..he could manage many languages..his voice had power&magic..he deserved to be the superstar!But sangeeth won it..i was happy..because i liked sangeeth too.One thing is for sure..There wont be two such talented finalists ever!



This is one of the best films i have ever seen in Malayalam. A mix of pure directorial brilliance and exceptional acting, supported by soothing music and frames. The credit goes to the entire crew behind this movie! This one film proves why Padmarajan is still regarded as one of the best directors in the film industry..No other director has ever dared to direct such a bold subject! When comes to acting, everyone has justified their selection to respective roles. Mannarthudi Jayakrishnan is a milestone character in Mohanlal's career, I should say he lived as Jayakrishnan. Sumalatha's Clara was one of the strongest character ever in Malayalam movies, infact her best character ever! Radha was nicely portrayed by Parvathy and Rishi was yet another great character for Ashokan, who is really lucky to have worked with almost all eminent directors of our industry! Another noted performance is that of Babu Namboothiri who plays the role of Thangal, a pimp by profession. Jagathy's Ravunni Nair adds spice of comedy to this movie! Every others acted in this film did great justice to their roles. The film is also famous for its great music, cinematography, locations and all. Both songs(Onnam ragam paadi&Megham poothu) were super hits. Padmarajan was always perfect at selecting his film locations, for this film he choose our very own Thrissur. The song scenes shot around Vadakkunathan Temple were simply superb. The film had some outstanding scenes like Jayakrishnan writing to Clara, their first meeting, Jayakrishnan proposing Clara, their next meeting at railway station, the climax scene(actually in this movie,every scene has got its own beauty). Rain plays an important role in this movie, it's a part of Jayakrishnan&Clara's journey. The climax scene leaves a nostalgic feeling in our mind. With a very touching music, Padmarajan ends the movie in a nostalgic style as Jayakrishnan accepts Radha as Clara gets married to someone else. They part with immense pain in their hearts..Clara loved Jayakrishnan only, but had to leave him for everyone's good future!

Thoovanathumbikal (Translation: Butterflies in the Spraying Rain) is a 1987 Indian film written and directed by the late P. Padmarajan, which is based on his own short story Udakappola. The protagonist is Jayakrishnan, who displays two entirely different faces, that of a rustic person and a sophisticated one. The film won rare accolades for the brilliant script. Perumbavoor G. Raveendranath composed some excellent musical scores (Onnaam Raagam Paadi,Megham Poothu Thudangi) for the film. Mohanlal is seen delivering one of his best performances as Jayakrishnan. The highlight of the film is the bold subject that is not dealt with usually in Malayalam films.

Plot: Jayakrishnan (Mohanlal), a well-to-do bachelor lives a dual life, one among his friends in the town and the other at his native village, where he lives with his mother and sister. While he is a free bird celebrating life with his crowd of friends in town, he is a proper family-man at home. The film is about his dual life and his encounter with the sex-worker-to-be Clara (Sumalatha), which takes him on a different journey and his love of Radha (Parvathy).

Jayakrishnan is a typical Thrissur Keralaite guy belonging to a noble family. He has his own vision of life, especially when it comes to marriage. He is hardworker and works in his own farm. At the same time he find time to enjoy a very modern life with his friends in town, about which very few people in his village knows.

One day he meets a girl called Radha, who is a distant relative of his and he falls in love with her. What attracts him to Radha is her toughness in her words (which normally portrays a persons character) which very few girls will possess. Now he feels it very hard not to tell Radha that he loves her and want to marry her. But Radha refuses it, thinking that he is a flirt.

Meanwhile, Jayakrishnan meets another girl, Clara. She hails from coastal fishermen community and was having poor life with her stepmother harassing her badly and was trying to get out her clutches. As an easy way for this, Clara agrees to become a sex worker and meets Jayakrishnan. Under the depression on getting rejected by Radha, Jayakrishnan gets acquainted with Clara and under one circumstance, make love with her. Later realizing that Clara was a virgin, Jayakrishnan becomes very much disturbed. Because one of his promises to his life is not to spoil a girls virginity unless, she is his wife or in-case he happens to do so, then that girls should become his wife. Thinking that breaking his one promise in life, he may spoil his entire life, Jayakrishan proposes to Clara. Admired by his sincerity to life she felt it difficult to reject his proposal and so Clara just disappears from Jayakrishnan because, she did not want to spoil his life by becoming his wife as she has already become a sex-worker in mind.

During this time, Radha, hearing more about Jayakrishnan from her brother (Madhavan), who is pretty close to Jayakrishnan, starts falling in love with him and becomes ready to accept his proposal. Her brother tell her that it was the first time that Jayakrishnan is proposing to a girl. She meets Jayakrishan and express her feelings and tell him that she feels sorry about what had happened in their first meeting. But now Jayakrishnan feels that he is not the right person for Radha and when she asks the reason, he will disclose everything that happened for him with Clara. Now she feels even more closer to him because of his sincerity. Radha, now express to Jayakrishnan, how she feels about him and tell him that she is not worried about his past and since he is not going to meet Clara anymore, she does not care about her. But Clara comes to the town again to meet Jayakrishnan. Jayakrishnan couldn't help him from not meeting her. During his time with her, he tell her about Radha, and Clara feels so happy about that. But later on Clara feels that she is the hindrance for Jayakrishnan not committing to Radha and vows that she will not meet him anymore. And before she leaves, request him not to disappoint Radha.

Now Jayakrishan and Radha get closer to each other and decides to marry. Everything goes on fine for a period until one day Jayakrishnan gets a telegram stating that Clara is coming to see him once more and this would be the last time they would meet each other and it would be at the town railway station. Clara is on her way for a long journey. Being shocked by this, Jayakrishnan and Radha couldn't decide what to do next. Radha requests Jayakrishnan not to meet Clara, but Jayakrishnan could not resist his mind from seeing her.

Towards the end of the movie, Jayakrishnan reaches the station to meet Clara. Radha too reaches the station without Jayakrishan's knowledge. At the station both gets shocked by seeing that Clara had already got married and is having a baby. She tells Jayakrishnan that she had decided to marry in-order to save both their futures. Now she will have a family life and Jayakrishnan will get Radha, with whom he had actually fallen in love. At the end the movie Clara leaves Jayakrishnan's life forever and Radha marries Jayakrishnan (though not shown explicitly in the end).


Mohanlal - Jayakrishnan
Sumalatha - Clara
Parvathi - Radha
Ashokan - Rishi
Babu Namboothiri - Thangal
Jagathi Sreekumar - Ravunni