Are we losing the essence&purity of Love,Romance&Proposals??

Often love or romance is mistaken as sex these days!The outlook of society to romance has greatly changed these days..Many people go on dating,hang around,have parties&finally end up in bed..I am not saying all lovers belong to this category,but majority comes under this!And they break up after they do all they want&start dating another person..This's really sad 2 hear..And basically unacceptable for our society or culture(but changing rapidly)!True love is something which is vanishing from our society..Almost 80% of love affairs are not true or sincere..Once we had the concept of true love..Now its just dating,hanging around,parties..It cant be called as love!Love is something which pours from our heart..A direct heart to heart conversation..The moment when our eyes speak more than mouth..Where we give our life for our loved one,keeps the sincerity&purity in the relation and finally ends in marriage..The lifelong commitment!

Of course sex is not a crime..Its natural in a relation..No relation will be there which didn't have at least a kiss..But its fine if that relation ends in a marriage!But as i said these days majority of the relations break up after sex..Premarital sex is becoming common in our country now..Hmm,i am not writing much about the sexual factor of this,will jump to the romance part!We have many concepts about romance..The most beautiful one is the "Romance in Rain"..A couple having a tight hug/kissing in rain..Walking in rain with their hands together..Getting a shelter under umbrella for the rain to get over&talk for a long time..Many concepts are there..For me,walking in the rain is the best one:)..Even walking along the beach,lying there together&watching the sky&stars..The list is endless!

Even romantic proposals are missing these days.. Of course the candlelit dinner is one of the best ways to do it..Tom Cruise proposed to Katie Holmes after just two months of dating during a private candlelit dinner at the famous Le Jules Verne restaurant near the top of the Eiffel Tower.. Isn't that really awesome??We are living in electronic age now..Technically we are very much advanced..We have mobiles,e-mails,chats,social networking sites etc...Most proposals are done through sms these days..Or through phone,e-mail or chats..All these are spoiling the natural beauty of proposals..I do like to share my view on proposing my girl.."On a starry night,in a beach side resort..Just me and her..Surrounded by just candle lights&soothing music being played on violin..In my ever favourite black suite..On my knees,i do like to say to her that 'i want you in my life'..And then put a ring on finger..Kiss on her forehead..":)

I deeply wish that our society remains the way it is..I am really afraid that western culture is getting into us..My sincere appreciation to those people who still holds all the values&purity in a relation..And to everyone,don't get offended after reading this..This is just my personal view or opinion on this subject..U will be having your own views on this..I don't expect i can change the world in a matter of seconds by my blog..I alone cant change anyone..Happy if anyone finds this as good or useful..I just expect that!

100 truths??

A Random Tag i borrowed from someone's blog as i browsed through..

1. Last beverage – A cup of Tea:)
2. Last phone call- Nipin(My best friend)
3. Last text message – Unni Chettan
4. Last song you listened to – Teri Meri Dosti Ka Aasman(Love Shreya's voice like anything:))
5. Last time you cried – When i had a harsh chat with my sister:(

6.Dated someone twice? – No
7. Been cheated on? – Maybe
8. Cried yourself to sleep? – Yes
9. Lost someone special? – No
10. Been depressed? – Yes
11. Seen ghosts – No..Want to see one:)

15.Made new friends – Yea always:)
16. Fallen out of love – No
17. Laughed until you cried – Yup..Many times!:)
18. Met someone who changed you – Yes!:)
19. Found out who your true friends were – Yes
20. Found out someone was talking about you – Yes
21. Kissed anyone on your friend's list - Yes;)
22. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life ? –More than 80%
23. How many kids do you want to have – Two..Godd,gimme controll;)
24. Do you have any pets – Yea..A dog!
25. Do you want to change your name – No need!
26. What did you do for your last birthday – Wrote a fucking university exam:(
27. What time did you wake up today – 6:30(had to download movies):)
28. What were you doing at midnight last night – Messaging and wishing everyone a very happy x'mas:)
29. Name something you CANNOT wait for – Finishing this hectic B.Tech!
30. Last time you saw your father – 3 months bak!
31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life – Want to acheive something i really desire:)
32. What are you listening to right now – Nothing!
33. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom - No!
34. What's getting on your nerves right now?- Ahh..Nothing!
36. Whats your real name - Gautham Sunil Kumar
37. Relationship Status – Its complicated!:)
38. Zodiac sign - Capricorn
39. Male or female – Male
40. Natural Hair color? - Black
41. Hair color now – Black
42. Pet Peeve – Fucking net speed!
43. Need Glasses- Ya..Just for fun!
44. Long or short – I am happy with this;)
45. Height - 6'1
46. Do you have a crush on someone – Yes...What a question??:)
47. What do you like about yourself? – I have a lot of very good friends:)
48. Piercings – No
49. Tattoos – No
50. Righty or lefty – Righty:)

51. First surgery – In 6th std!
52. First piercing – Will inform when i does one!
53. First tattoo - Coming soon:)
54. First best friend – Don't want to mention one..I have a lot of best friends:)
55. First sport you joined – Lemon nd Spoon(I think so):)
56. First pet – A Dog
57. First vacation – Kallara(My native place)
59. First crush- Soumya:)
60. First alcoholic drink – Beer(Wid my cousins and uncle):)

61. Eating – Dairy Milk:)
62. Wearing – A Shirt&Tracks:)
63. I'm about to - Continue reading 2 states:)
64. Speaking to – No one!
65. Waiting to – Celebrate my birthday!
66. Want kids? – Noooooo
67. Want to get married? – Ya..4 sure!
68. Careers in mind? – Journalist..Writer..Anything in media field:)

69. Lips or eyes – What a question??Defenitely eyes:)
70. Hugs or kisses – Hug when i kiss her;)
71. Shorter or taller- Not too short..Should hav a decent height..Height doesnt matter much:)
72. Older or Younger – Both:P
73. Romantic or spontaneous – Spontaneously romantic:)
74. Nice stomach or nice arms – Everything should be nice:P
75. Tattoos or piercings- Just ears pierced:)
76. Sensitive or loud- Sensitive!
77. Hook-up or relationship – Should get hooked up in a relationship!
78. Trouble maker or hesitant- Trouble maker:)

79. Kissed a stranger – No:)
80. Drank hard liquor - Yes:)
81. Lost glasses/contacts – Luckily not:)
82. Sex on first date – No..After that;)
83. Broken someones heart – Dont think so..:)
84. Had your own heart broken –I think once:(
85. Been arrested?- Nope:(..Waiting 4 that 4 a long time..Many times i narrowly missed it..Hope it will soon happen:)
86. Turned someone down - No
87. Cried when someone died - Yes
88. Got someone into trouble intentionally – Never

89. Yourself – Sometimes:)
90. Miracles – Yes
91. Love at first sight – No
92. Heaven – On earth..Wid friends:)
93. Santa Claus –Yes!
94. Kissing on the first date? - No
95. Angels – Yes

96. Is there one person you want to be with right now? – Yes..Very muchh:)
97. Had more than one boyfriend/ girlfriend at one time? – Yes in 10th:)
98. Do you believe it’s possible to remain faithful forever? – Yes..Sure:)
99. What's the one thing you cannot live without? – Friends nd family:)
100. Posting this as 100 truths? – Ya!