Friday

Are we losing the essence&purity of Love,Romance&Proposals??






Often love or romance is mistaken as sex these days!The outlook of society to romance has greatly changed these days..Many people go on dating,hang around,have parties&finally end up in bed..I am not saying all lovers belong to this category,but majority comes under this!And they break up after they do all they want&start dating another person..This's really sad 2 hear..And basically unacceptable for our society or culture(but changing rapidly)!True love is something which is vanishing from our society..Almost 80% of love affairs are not true or sincere..Once we had the concept of true love..Now its just dating,hanging around,parties..It cant be called as love!Love is something which pours from our heart..A direct heart to heart conversation..The moment when our eyes speak more than mouth..Where we give our life for our loved one,keeps the sincerity&purity in the relation and finally ends in marriage..The lifelong commitment!


Of course sex is not a crime..Its natural in a relation..No relation will be there which didn't have at least a kiss..But its fine if that relation ends in a marriage!But as i said these days majority of the relations break up after sex..Premarital sex is becoming common in our country now..Hmm,i am not writing much about the sexual factor of this,will jump to the romance part!We have many concepts about romance..The most beautiful one is the "Romance in Rain"..A couple having a tight hug/kissing in rain..Walking in rain with their hands together..Getting a shelter under umbrella for the rain to get over&talk for a long time..Many concepts are there..For me,walking in the rain is the best one:)..Even walking along the beach,lying there together&watching the sky&stars..The list is endless!


Even romantic proposals are missing these days.. Of course the candlelit dinner is one of the best ways to do it..Tom Cruise proposed to Katie Holmes after just two months of dating during a private candlelit dinner at the famous Le Jules Verne restaurant near the top of the Eiffel Tower.. Isn't that really awesome??We are living in electronic age now..Technically we are very much advanced..We have mobiles,e-mails,chats,social networking sites etc...Most proposals are done through sms these days..Or through phone,e-mail or chats..All these are spoiling the natural beauty of proposals..I do like to share my view on proposing my girl.."On a starry night,in a beach side resort..Just me and her..Surrounded by just candle lights&soothing music being played on violin..In my ever favourite black suite..On my knees,i do like to say to her that 'i want you in my life'..And then put a ring on finger..Kiss on her forehead..":)


I deeply wish that our society remains the way it is..I am really afraid that western culture is getting into us..My sincere appreciation to those people who still holds all the values&purity in a relation..And to everyone,don't get offended after reading this..This is just my personal view or opinion on this subject..U will be having your own views on this..I don't expect i can change the world in a matter of seconds by my blog..I alone cant change anyone..Happy if anyone finds this as good or useful..I just expect that!


11 comments:

maliny said...

i agree to it that the real meaning of the word love is missing nw a days.. its a sad thing..but the beauty of romance never deteriorates..its the same even now.. but wish more people thought of taking the whole thing called love seriously..so that it ends in commitments.. good post :)

Gautham said...

thanx maliny:)..yes maliny,the beauty of romance will never fade in anyway..but many people understands its meaning in a wrong way..thats the sad part of it!yup,i too wish people take love very seriously&ends in commitments!

Deepal said...

True romance always exists but is realized very less these days. Its the approach of the present generation that should be changed. The advancement of technology and development of metro's has a lot to do with more 'one night stands' :|
Hope for the best!!

Gautham said...

well said deepal:)

sachin said...

Love is not something that can be said as a concept ,it exists and its always there.The way we go about it has changed and is changing...its has always been like that.Yes,the use technology may have reduced the human interaction,but we can't educate people like love should be this way or that way..thats the beauty of it ,its natural and it takes its natural way...

Divya said...

well its actually impossible 2 find true lov nw a days.as u said in ur blog most of dem just wants 2 hav a physical relationship..but isnt lov something more dan dat..something 2 b felt by our inner souls..its a commitment taken by 2 ppl(well most of dem dont hav it.),telling dat i vl b der no matter watevr..its a giv n tak relationship.i blive when ppl understands d true meaning of all these,dey vl hav a lovely relationship..

Gautham said...

@sachin: well said yaar..love is a natural feeling..it's great if it stays like that..don's want an artificiality or adulteration in it..
@divya: yup,love is a commitment which should end in marriage..and hope everyone take the meaning of love in the right way&lead a lovely relationship..

sree said...

tink abt tis...ur in royal bakery...wit a gal whom u luv for 4 yrs...for whom u ve been de best frnd & nvr confessed & she knos evryting...and at last she tells u dat she was in luv wit u for a long time &nvr realised...n de nxt day shes goin abroad....hw ll u manage
2 stay hpy(genuinely)witout cryin...n keep de lovely smile on ur face witout ny make up ..on de day f her departure...den welcome 2 my life...u kno hw i did it...coz i realised sumtin...dat sumtimes departure s also luv...it doesnt ve ny condition..dat u r goin to live wit her or die wit her..blah blah...its unconditional..n if u keep conditions u r doin business not luv...i loved her...bt i never wished she was mine....made sure dat she wont regret
for me...i told her sumtin dat day....to alwyz remember dat sum1 in sum corner f dis world s hpy coz u r hpy...sum1 s vry sad coz u r sad...so stay happy...4 me...i m goin to win my life 4 her...stay hpy 4 her...u kno y....coz dats de magic she did 2 me......cant belive i m cryin wen i write dis....nah...nt sad....but hpy...2 realize dat she can never luv me as much i luv her...nw de thing i was abt to ask is....."won't u cal my luv a success????"

Gautham said...

yes definitely..true love wins always!

nila said...

guess that you are a creative romantic person

Gautham said...

@nila: hehe..it maybe true ;)